“When I understand myself, I understand you, and out of that understanding comes love.” Jiddu Krishnamurti The place in my life that defines me most clearly is our orange grove up in Ojai, California, which is 1 ½ hours north of Los Angeles, 12 miles east of the Pacific Ocean. Our orange grove is filled…

We celebrated Ray’s belated birthday tonight by going to Irvine Meadows to see Chic and Duran Duran. This was Ray’s choice primarily because he has been a Chic fan ever since they appeared on the scene. Rachael. Liz, Ron and Ron’s friend Kevin all were there. We are currently speeding north along the 405 with…