Lessons from My “Non-Spiritual” Husband

I went to church this morning – leading morning prayer at 7:30 and then attending low mass at 8 am. Ray came with me – always a treat – and we stayed afterwards to chat at coffee hour. Ray will go to the 8 o’clock mass because, as he says, “We get all that church…

Saturday Afternoon in LA

The dogs are barking outside. It is mid-afternoon on a Saturday and the sky is blue. A helicopter just flew by and I can now hear its engine fading as it heads off to the west. Bach’s Brandenburg concerto is playing and Ray is rattling dishes in the kitchen. My fifteen-year-old student, Cameron, is here…

A Call from a Sick Friend

Ray and I were sitting here playing a second game of Scrabble tonight when my cell phone rang. It was Ian, who is our friend and also our priest. It was already 7:45 and he is a notorious early-to-bedder. I was surprised to be getting a call. “Hello,” I said. “Len?” “Hey.  What’s happening?” “I’m…

Our Mexico Trip in Photos

I want very much to write about my trip to Mexico, but every time I try I find myself writing too much. I could write a 100 pages on this trip. So, in an effort to be succinct, I am going to combine pictures with commentary. Here is the house where we stayed by the…

The Death of a Childhood Friend as I Turn 60

I learned today that my childhood friend, Cheryl Hicks, has died of a heart attack, just three weeks before her 60th birthday.  I went from first grade through twelfth with Cheryl and spent a good amount of time at her home growing up. I haven’t seen her in a long time, but she is one…

Disney Hall on a Friday Night

We are returning from Disney Hall tonight after hearing the work of Bartok and two other Hungarian composers.  We stopped at a light and a homeless man named “Wolf” approached the driver’s window.  Ray gave him a litttle money to which Wolf said, “I need to get 20 dollars together.  It would be better if…

A Miracle Today at the DMV

Today, I learned there really is a God. He shone his glory down upon me the minute I walked into the DMV to renew my driver’s license. Granted I had set up an appointment online for 9:30, but I’ve done that before and still waited 2 hours. Today, I was prepared for the same. I…

A Breakfast Celebration + a Recipe for Ricotta Cheese Waffles

We had a breakfast celebration for Liz today for her birthday. We had ricotta cheese waffles with real maple syrup, turkey sausage, scrambled eggs, freshly squeezed orange juice and coffee. The table was set with a tablecloth, napkins and candles. We had a fire burning in the fireplace all at 7: 30 am. We had…

January 16th: Elizabeth’s Birthday!

Today I have been thinking about Liz’s birth back in 1986. How I had gone to the midwife on the morning of the 15th and declared, “I just need to have this baby,” even though my due date was two weeks away. I don’t know if it was the “I can’t stand being pregnant another second”…

My Mother and Her Pain

“Please don’t share our family tragedy,” my mother whispered to me while we stood in church together in Pottsboro, Texas in 1990. I understood what she was saying to me. “Please don’t tell these people.  I can’t bear to deal with this right now.” Tragedy was not too strong of a word. We had just…