Outgrowing the Old

I am sitting in my office alone. The parent who was supposed to call at 5 requested a last-minute change to 5:45. I have no computer with me, just my phone, several pieces of blank white paper, and a pencil. I rarely find myself with forty-five unscheduled minutes, particularly on Wednesdays and Thursdays when our…

Albert Einstein: “A Friendly or Hostile Universe”

I wrote this piece a few years ago, but I believe it is still relevant today. We are assailed daily with the invitation to see the universe we live in as hostile. While many terrible things are happening right now that I don’t support or believe are right, I still think most people are decent,…

My Friend Nick and His ALS Journey

Last November, my beloved friend, John Nicolaisen, aka Nick, was diagnosed with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS or Lou Gehrig’s Disease).  Since then, he has lost strength and breathing ability. Nick was my college boyfriend and travel mate for a year in Italy in the mid-70s. We both taught English at the British School in Milan….

Happy Birthday, Ron!

Today is our son-in-law Ron’s birthday. He is the husband of our daughter, Liz, and the father of our grandson, Ethan. Ron is a successful lawyer, an excellent cook, a talented sourdough bread maker, a fantastic gardener, a fine son, and an honest, decent, and kind person. We are exceedingly lucky to have him in…

Shifting Worrying to Thoughts of Things I Love

Lately, I’ve discovered that I need some new coping skills. Between the constant news about yet another distressing national or international concern and juggling a few too many plates in the air, I have found myself worrying much more than usual. I also feel a bit overwhelmed at the many details that seem to demand…

Congratulations to Diya!

My writing student Diya had a hard choice regarding colleges since she was accepted at the University of Arizona, Arizona State, Pepperdine, Syracuse, UC Davis, UC Riverside, UC Merced, San Diego State University, Cal State Long Beach, Cal State LA, and waitlisted at USC, Loyola Marymount, and U Miami. She wrote me late last week…

Bringing a Little Comfort

Growing up, my dad made me milk toast when I was sick. This consisted of two slices of toasted Mrs. Baird’s bread torn up and placed in a big bowl, then covered with warm milk sweetened with sugar. One pat of butter went on top to add a little extra richness. Milk toast was my…

A Poem by Charles Bukowski: Worth Reading for Lots of Reasons

I shared this several years ago, but came across it today and thought it was worth posting again. You’ll see why once you read it. Charles Bukowski died at the age of 73. He was a prolific writer who published 60 books of poems and short stories, in addition to 6 novels. Although he was…