Family & Parenting
- Having all three of my babies at home with a midwife, my best friend, Patricia, and Ray.
- Watching my daughters graduate from USC and UCLA.
- Seeing Sarah graduate from medical school and her residency program.
- Seeing Liz graduate from law school.
- Seeing Rachael graduate with a Master’s in English Literature.
- Watching my granddaughters Luna and Lyla born as well as my grandson, Ethan.
- Seeing baby Nico immediately after Sarah’s C-section.
- Watching Sarah and Elizabeth marry men they love, Gregorio and Ron, and seeing how devoted Rachael is to her life partner, Andrew.
- Talking with my mother.
- Spending time with my grandkids in Pasadena and Ojai, or when the family is together in Utah or Mexico.
Childhood & Youthful Memories
- Riding my big red tricycle up and down the sidewalk on East 9th Street.
- Snuggling with my mom in bed, reading.
- Riding with my dad in the pickup to feed the cows.
- Falling in love for the first time with my high school sweetheart.
- Being a member of a Sweepstakes band in high school.
- Winning a slot as a twirler as a senior in high school and being part of a twirling trio that went all the way to State and won all 1s.
- Sneaking out with my girlfriends in high school and riding around town in my VW.
- Pouring out my heart to my beloved Lorene, our housekeeper, and my extra mother.
Education & Career
- Being part of the “Free Curriculum” program at the University of Utah and designing my own college curriculum.
- Working as a psychotherapist on a psych unit and at a community mental health center.
- Running the PTA parent education program for the Beverly Hills School District for 15 years and receiving the highest award in PTA for running those parenting programs.
- Becoming part of Story Circle Network back in 2008 and serving as the president of the board for four years.
- Presenting workshops at the Story Circle Network national writing conferences.
- Becoming the online writing classes coordinator for Story Circle Network and also teaching hundreds of wonderful students through SCN.
- Working with my private writing students to win regional and national writing awards through the Scholastic Artists and Writers Contest and/or helping them get into their first-choice colleges and graduate schools.
Writing & Creativity
- Writing over 50 memoir pieces for Nerdnosh and reconnecting with old friends from my hometown.
- Having my memoir pieces and short stories published in literary journals and anthologies.
- Having one of my short stories and one of my personal essays nominated for a Pushcart Prize (the best of the small presses).
- Being a member of John Rechy’s weekly Masterclass in writing.
- Starting my 20 Minutes a Day blog back in 2012.
- Being honored at Carnegie Hall as a writing teacher through the Alliance of Artists and Writers.
Music & Singing
- Singing hymns at church on the back row with my friends at Holy Trinity, Bonham.
- Singing with the St. Thomas the Apostle choir.
- Singing with the Los Angeles Camarata at Carnegie Hall.
Faith & Service
- Serving as Rector’s Warden, on the Vestry, and as an acolyte at St. Thomas the Apostle, Hollywood.
- Cooking breakfast for the homeless for over 20 years.
Adventures & Travel
- Traveling in Europe alone for a month when I was 19 after spending time with brothers Sam and John in Italy.
- Living and working in Italy with my friend Nick for a year when I was 22-23 and spending time with my brother John.
- Vacationing in Paris, London, and Barcelona with Ray and my family.
- Leading three international writing workshops and sightseeing trips to Italy with 40+ people each.
- Discovering the joys of hiking and camping with my sister Leslie and her family while in college in Utah.
Home, Heritage & Restoration
- Spending time at our orange grove in Ojai.
- Being part of three Victorian house restorations headed by Ray and enjoying those beautiful homes.
Business & Entrepreneurship
- Selling antique décor to the Chili’s chain.
- Buying and selling antiques at Canton, Dallas Fair Park, and Brimfield, Mass.
Love & Marriage
- Marrying Ray Beaty.
- Celebrating 44 years of marriage with a man who is my best friend.
Life’s Challenges & Deep Connections
- Moving to Los Angeles to be near my brother Jim through his dying process.
- Visiting and laughing with close family and friends.
- Being awarded the Crucis Cross at Camp Crucis (Episcopal church camp) when I was 12 after spending that camp session with my brother George.
