Elegy for Brother George

At Mass this week, your name was read from our parish’s Chantry Book,
commemorating the anniversary of your death, May 3, 2004.
Every year when I hear “George Biggers Leatherwood” called out,
I sigh and think, “I miss you, Brother.”

I miss your chuckle, your smile, your sense of humor
Your ability to cut right through any b.s. and speak the truth
I miss your love for your wife and your kids
And your self-effacing way of dealing with life

Mostly, I miss our born connection to each other, our friendship
I carry you with me every day so it’s not as if you are ever far
Still, I could use a hug from you or a little bit of teasing
I could also use your "That's the truth" on my assessment of a situation

You are irreplaceable, without a doubt
I am better off having had you, that is for sure
Our relationship helped me to know what real love, sibling or not, is all about:
Feeling seen, valued, and understood

Thank you for that, George
I am grateful to have had you for as long as I did
I trust you are at peace
And that thought makes me happy, my friend.

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  1. Judy Alter's avatar Judy Alter says:

    Thank you, Len. This is particualrly poignant for me right now, and I especially appreciate the recognition of the born connection, It is never quite the same in any other relationship, no matter how close. It’s like someone knows you, warts and all, and still loves you. My heart goes out to you as you remember your brother.

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