A Few Things I Know From Writing 20 Minutes a Day

Benefits of Writing/Blogging 20 Minutes a Day since 2011: 3249 Posts I have learned the following: If you write daily, you will increase writing fluidity, develop your “voice,” discover who you are and how you think, feel good about yourself by doing something every day related to writing, believe you are closer to being a…

Flash Fiction: Enough

I’m in my car. I have my water bottle, a backpack with a few clothes, my parka, and a pair of hiking boots. The rest of my stuff I’ve given away, sold, or left in bags by the dumpster in the alley, knowing people come through there all the time and will appreciate a twice-worn…

Thoughts on My Late Brother George Today on His Birthday

My brother George, three years my senior, was one of my closest and most favorite people in this world. He was my first playmate, first friend, and first hero. I can still feel the warmth in my chest that I felt as a little girl when my big brother George was around. I developed a…

Rest in Peace, Geraldo

Today, we celebrated a Requiem Mass for Geraldo Vergara, a fellow parishioner at St. Thomas the Apostle Episcopal Church, Hollywood. I saw Geraldo (aka Gerry) routinely at the 8 am Sunday Mass, which is the one Ray and I usually prefer. Gerry served as an usher at many early morning Masses and always greeted us…

My Love Affair with the Wind

I am sitting in my little writing room listening to Gregorian chants. The heater is on and it’s warm and cozy. Outside, I can hear the wind starting to blow. Southern California has had very strong winds over the past few nights. They are revving back up tonight. I love a good strong wind. Not…

Our SCN Writing Challenge and the Need to Avoid Perfectionism

I am leading a Story Circle Network “20 Minutes a Day” Writing Challenge this month. Approximately 42 women are participating in this challenge, and each has signed up to write 20 minutes a day, 6 days a week for 4 weeks. They are divided into accountability groups of 5 to 6 members, and each group is…

How Texas Customs Have Influenced My Goodbyes

My husband Ray always teases me about my “goodbye” etiquette based on my Texas upbringing. He is fond of pointing out that I am often the last person to leave a gathering, including a funeral where I might start a conversation with the men just about to fill in the grave after everyone has driven…

Four Words for 2024: Breakthrough, Change, Health, and Heal

Today, I came across one of those Facebook games that is a square with what looks like a couple of hundred random letters. It read, “The first four words you see will define 2024 for you.” Those words, which were not quick in coming, by the way, were breakthrough, change, health, and heal. While I…