
I am now home after one of those packed-to-the-brim days. I am almost embarrassed to admit how full this day was since it so accurately depicts my inability to say no, as well as my tendency towards seat-of-my-pants preparation. But in the spirit of candor, here goes:
5:30 am – My alarm goes off
5:45 am – I finally drag myself out of bed
6:00 am – I say good-bye to daughter Liz and boyfriend Ron, who are also up since my husband Ray is driving them to the airport.
6:10 am – I head off to the Homeless Breakfast at my church, where we feed 250 people every two weeks.
6:30 am – I am busy making 4 big batches of banana bread pudding for our "guests," with help from several new volunteers (yea!).
8:00 am – The breakfast begins and I begin washing dishes.
10:00 am – All the other volunteers, my husband Ray (the coordinator of the breakfast), and I finish feeding 250 people, cleaning the kitchen and the two halls, taking out all the trash and making everything look as if we've never been there.
10:05 am – My husband and I search all over the parish hall for the speaker and microphone I am supposed to borrow from the church for my Writing Celebration (and which Ray was supposed to have picked up yesterday…)
10:20 – We admit defeat and head home
10:30 – I begin hauling everything to the front door that I've packed up for the Writing Celebration: food, favors, drinks, bowls, platters, etc. and Ray starts loading it all in the car.
10:45 – I print up the story I had forgotten to print (yikes, that would have been embarrassing for one of my students and me), plus I start editing one more story of a student who had lots of tests this week and couldn't work with me.
11:15 – I go over all the names of the kids and make sure I haven't forgotten anybody else's work.
11:30 – I go upstairs, take a shower, and get dressed.
11:50 – Ray and I hop in two cars and head off across town to Roxbury Park and the room reserved there in the community center.
12:15 – After hitting traffic, we finally arrive. The custodian says, "I was starting to worry about you. I say, " I was starting to worry about me, too!"
12:30 – Everything has been hauled in from the car and I start throwing tablecloths on tables while Ray and the custodian arrange the chairs.
12:40 – Ray and I fill bowls with nuts, M&Ms, gummy bears, and set out trays filled with cheese and crackers, vegetables, and fruit, which I had prepared the night before. In addition, we lay out cookies and the remainder of the chocolate cake I'd made for Liz's celebration dinner, plus pour ice in a big bowl and fill it with juice boxes and water bottles. Finally, we arrange all the favors that I'd made for the occasion: animal coffee cups (gorilla, elephant and panda) filled with candy, a little composition book, a pencil and a box of incense (for inspiration).
12:50 – As we are putting on the finishing touches (and Ray has complimented me on how organized I am!), the first families arrive.
1:00 – The Event is supposed to start, but I have now received 3 texts that people are "stuck in traffic." I make an announcement that we will be slightly delayed since we have several people on their way.
1:10 – One of the mothers remembers to tell me that another mother had called her and asked if she'd let me know that her son was sick.
1:12 – I officially begin the "Readings."
1:15 – The first of the 3 latecomers arrives, quickly followed by the other two families.
1:16 – 2:16 – My students wow their parents and friends with their short stories, personal essays, poems, and dramatic dialogues.
2:17 – Ray waves good-bye to me as he heads off to the airport for a week-long trip.
2:18 – Hugs and congratulations to all involved, including me.
2:30 – Everyone is gone except for me and a cart (courtesy of the recreational center) so that I can pack up and roll all of the remaining food, drinks, bowls, platters, etc. back to the car.
3:10 – I'm all packed up and sitting in the car. Ray lets me know he's made it to the airport safely, and Liz and Ron have made it to Mexico City.
3:00 – I head home
3:30 – At home, I carry in all the boxes from the car, put away the perishables, and leave the rest in the boxes for now.
4:10 – I change shoes and head off to church where I am supposed to serve at the 5 o'clock Vigil Mass as a thurifer (the person who swings the incense bowl).
4:30 – I arrive at church, see my fellow acolytes and priest, then get ready.
5:00 – 5:45 – Vigil Mass. I make a few little mistakes since I'm tired, but everyone is nice and helps me.
5:45 – 6:00 – We clean up and prepare for the masses tomorrow.
6:00 – I head home, happy I am done.
6:20 – At home, I change clothes and check my email.
6:40 – I decide that I should write my blog early so I can go stare at television with nothing else to do.
6:40 – 7:40 – I write part of my blog post, stop to take a picture of one of the favors for my students, and then return to finish.
7:48 – Ray calls to tell me he has arrived safely and is meeting our daughter, Sarah.
7:50 – I read over my blog and after making sure I haven't misspelled any words, I hit publish.
7:55 – I go into the den and click on the television.
8:30 – I go to bed.
I am happy and I'm also tired. So, off to television watching I go now. Until tomorrow…
I became tired simply reading your timeline. Oh my. You are a BUSY lady. Happy Mother’s Day.
Today I slept until 8:45 and then had a nap from 1:30 – 4. Even for me, the past week has been too much. I’m glad it’s over!
Len.
My most difficult chore ahead today will be to indelibly burn the word “thurifer” into my feeble memory. How I envy my fellow word birds who have excellent recall.
Ha! I’m glad you like that word. It might not be that easy to remember since it’s not a “normal’ sounding word. I appreciate such close reading, however!