Today I got mad
My husband was rude to me
So I was rude back
Then he tried to joke
But I swelled up like a toad
Our poor friend stood by
It’s no fun to watch
Long-term married people fight
It’s undignified
I can be thin-skinned
It is not a pretty sight
I go silent fast
I know that’s not fair
Better to admit what’s wrong
And let it all go
But sometimes I can’t
It’s as if anger grabs me
And hangs on too tight
We yelled riding home
Saying words that were not true
Then split for the day
Soon I telephoned
And made the first concession
We made up right then
I don’t like fighting
And yet sometimes I flare up
For no good reason
My husband teased me
As soon as I returned home
Finally, I laughed
He was rude it’s true
But I took too much offense
I want thicker skin
This is raw and powerful. Wow.